Kumusta si Bossing?

Si Bossing nung huli naming pictorial
Si Bossing nung huli naming pictorial

Tinatanggap ko na talaga na mas sikat na si bossing kesa sa akin. Bakit ka nyo?

  • Tuwing may mga kaibigan akong matagal ko ng hindi kinakausap, ang tanong kaagad eh “Kumusta na si bossing/baby/Alex?” tapos tsaka pa lang ako kukumustahin.
  • Kapag naglalakad kami sa kalsada lahat babatiin sya “Hi Alex!” tapos may ibang mga bata bubulong “Ay sya pala mama ni Alex?”
  • Lalong-lalo na tuwing gagala kami o magsisimba kung kailan pusturang-pustura si bossing at naka-necktie pa, lahat ng mga taong makakasalubong “Ay ang cute naman nung baby!” sabay titingin sa akin na parang sinusuri kung ako nga talaga ang ina. Ako naman smile din ng konti tapos minsan deadma lang.

Pero sa totoo lang tuwing lalabas kami na kasama ang anak ko, nape-pressure ako na magpaganda o kaya magbihis ng maganda dahil napakataas ng expectations ng mga tao kapag nakikita nila si bossing. Ang tanging silbi ko lagi ay escort, o kaya yaya.  Buti na lang mejo hindi PA patapon ang beauty ng lola mo. Nakaka-cope up pa kahit papaano.

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The Life I Wanted

“Mommy!”

I half opened my eyes. Alex is standing beside the bed waiting for me to wake up. I gave him the best smile I can give in the morning after bed. I checked the time, it’s only fifteen minutes after seven. I closed my eyes trying to get more sleep.

“Mommy!”

I opened my eyes again, tried to get up, greeted him “Good morning!” with a very big smile, and lied down again.

“Mommy pu pu!”

This time I knew I had to get up. I quickly checked his diaper, saw traces of pu pu but couldn’t find it.

Alex was staring at something under the bed. After I fasten his diaper back, thinking that he wasn’t finished yet, he suddenly shouted “Ma!” pointing at what he’s looking at. It was the missing pu pu.

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Mother’s Day Special

Napakasarap talaga ng pakiramdam kapag binabati ng Happy Mother’s Day tuwing darating ang okasyon na ito. Mas lalo ko lamang naintindihan ang totoong kahulugan ng mga salitang ito nung ako mismo ay naging ina.

Naalala ko tuloy ng mga panahong bata pa ako, kinakantahan namin lagi ang aming mga nanay sa church tuwing Mother’s Day, binibigyan ng flowers at cards na may I love you na nakasulat. Napaka-iyakin pa naman ng nanay ko. Hindi pwedeng hindi sya maluluha sa mga bagay na nakaka-touch or nakaka-inspire sa kanya. Naka-automatic yata ang kanyang tear glands sa mga ganoong pagkakataon.

Mommy with my bossing at 4 weeks
Mommy with my bossing at 4 weeks

Si Mommy ay isang walang kamatayang “stage mother.” Hindi pwedeng hindi nya ipi-prisinta ang kanyang mga anak sa mga kung anik-anik na programs at presentations. Lagi na lang lalapit sa akin “Anak dali kanta ka raw dito sa ganitong program” o kaya “Anak sayaw kayo nina ate mo dun sa kabilang kalye.” Mas madalas ko marinig sa kanya “Anak sali ka dito sa singing contest dahil malaki yung premyo.” Kapag nakakapag-uwi namana ko ng cash prizes ay kakapurik lang minsan ang nararamdaman ko. Hehe.. Pero siguro grateful lang talaga ang nanay ko na ang kanyang mga anak ay biniyayaan ng iba’it ibang talento at sinisigurado nya lagi na maishe-share ang mga iyon sa iba. Lagi nyang sinasabi “Sige anak kapag hindi mo ni-share yan babawiin yang talent sa iyo ni God.” Medyo ayaw ko namang mawala yung talento kaya nauuto pa ako hanggang first year high school kaso nung tumatanda na kami lalo na kaming naiilang at nahihiya.

Naging napakalaking suliranin ng aming pamilya ang kaperahan pero hindi ko pa rin makakalimutan kung paano pinilit ni Mama na i-survive ang aming pag-aaral. Si Mama yung nanay na hindi nawawalan ng paraan para makahanap ng pangbaon sa amin sa pagpasok sa eskwela. Yun siguro ang isa sa mga napakaraming bagay na pinapasalamat ko sa kanya. Kahit maraming pagkakataon na kinailangan naming tumigil ng pag-aaral ay hindi pa rin sya sumuko at hindi pumayag na tumigil kami.

Maraming mga kahinaan din ang aking ina pero ang masasabi ko lang ay sa likod ng mga kahinaang iyon, humahanga ako sa kanya dahil hindi pa rin nya nakakalimutang manalig sa taas at bumangon para ipagpatuloy ang hamon ng buhay.

Mommy, (alam ko mababasa mo ito dahil ipapabasa ko rin naman eh hehe) thank you po sa pag-anak mo sa akin sa mundong ito. Alam na alam ko kung paanong hirap ang dinanas mo sa pagluwal sa akin at aking mga kapatid. Salamat sa pagbuwis mo ng iyong buhay at pagukol ng iyong buong buhay sa pagpapalaki sa amin ng maayos at pagtuturo ng mga bagay na dapat naming matutunan. Salamat sa paghila mo sa amin sa simbahan tuwing linggo noong kami’y mga bata pa kung saan ko natutunan magpahalaga ng ispiritwalidad at kung paano maging mabuting tao sa aking kapwa.

Walang isang milyong salita ang makakapaglarawan ng pagmamahal ko sa inyo. Tandaan nyo po na kahit ano pa ang pinagdaanan ko ay hinding-hindi ko makakalimutan ang mga bagay na tinuro mo sa aming magkakapatid. Mahal ka po namin.

Happy Mother’s Day Ma! ^_^

Power Mothers

Ate Kengks and MegaMom took pictures. My cam's still busted. This is me and two-week old Alex.
Ate Kengks and MegaMom took pictures. My cam's still busted. This is haggard mom (me) and two-week old Alex.

Yesterday I had the opportunity to meet in person two of the best blogger moms in the country. It was a very rare and special opportunity that a newbie blogger like me would actually talk in person with these two great mothers who are living their lives to the fullest taking care of their children at the same time pursuing their careers or different interests in life.

Ate Kengkay was very different from what I imagined. I never thought she was very formal and witty, at the same time so KALOG and so easy to converse with. We had a great time laughing and sharing thoughts and ideas on almost every subject we came up with. (Thank you talaga Mommy Kengks! Had the best time with you. Hope to see you again in the future.) Her very cute little daughter Bea was with her as well as her niece (forgot her name ate Kengks) who is really very nice and had a few conversations with her too. Bea, just like my boss, is so cute and stubborn at the same time, which i believe she has all the right to be because of her extreme beauty. She likes to take pictures but doesn’t want to take her own picture which I find very amusing. That gives us a hint that she wouldn’t grow up to be a narcissist. She was really adorable.

Pinay MegaMom sneaked in and spent a short quality time with us. It was really great getting to meet someone like her. Imagine a short haired coporate looking mom who speaks very elegantly but KALOG DIN at the same time! It was a short but significant talk for me. In just a few minutes of discussion my whole insight of taking and practicing med has been changed. She shared her experiences practicing her profession and what made her decide to switch to work in a corporate world instead and has given her more time for her family. According to her, the emotional stress that you get working corporately is nothing compared to what you get from your patients trying to take care or save their lives. That was something new for me because all the while I have been wanting and my sibblings to take med. She really set to me a different outlook in life. It was also thrilling to know that we came from the same alma matter!

The whole event became an inspiration to me. Both moms helped me realize my worth as a mother and how our roles touches lives in various ways. It also strengthened my love for my own mother as well as my child and my family. It is so good to know that inspite of the crisis that is happening globally as well as the numerous deviated trends going on in our society, there are still mothers who remain firmly footed on the ground, does not wither and continue to nurture their children with all the love and support and equip them with knowledge and values they need to overcome life’s battles.

It might be too early to greet our mothers a Happy Mother’s Day, but it’s always the right timing to say that we love them.